atlanta foreclosures homes
Should I stay or should I go?
My girlfriend’s mother is a train wreck. She recently lost her home to foreclosure in Atlanta and moved into a trailer in TN. They have since moved from TN to FL due to the husband getting a job transfer, working for a convenience store/truckstop chain. The mother cannot keep a job for more than a few weeks or months and has been like that for years and its “never her fault.” Well they cannot afford to pay rent on a spot in a trailer park and the mother is going to move back to Atlanta and park the trailer outside of my girlfriend’s house and the husband is going to live in his car and work in FL. My concern is that the mother is never going to leave once she gets back to Atlanta and will depend on her daughter. I would like to get serious with my girlfriend, as she is very sweet, caring, etc. I do not like the mother and do not want to be her financier, if her daughter and I get more serious. What to do, should I stay or should I go?
First off I feel so bad for your girlfriend that she has family like that. It’s hard to try and come between family, so don’t leave her because she can’t totally control something. She wants to be there for her family and you have to admire her for that.
On the other hand, you should tell her what you are feeling about this whole situation. Let her know that you are not comfortable with her family and their irresponsibility. You need to be totally honest with what you are willing to deal with and what you are not. But also let her know that you don’t want her being taken advantage of, and you will help her if she needs to stand up to her mom and dad.
Hope some of that helps!
